Thinking about buying your first sex doll but unsure where to start? You are not alone. Below are the 20 most common questions first-time buyers ask, answered honestly.

1. How Much Does a Sex Doll Cost?

Quality full-size dolls range from $800 to $4,000+. Entry-level TPE dolls start around $800–$1,200. Mid-range models with better detail run $1,500–$2,500. Premium silicone dolls start at $2,500 and can exceed $5,000 for custom work.

2. TPE or Silicone — Which Is Better?

TPE is softer and more affordable; silicone is firmer, non-porous, and easier to maintain. First-time buyers on a budget typically choose TPE; those wanting durability and minimal upkeep choose silicone. See our full comparison guide for details.

3. How Heavy Are They?

Most full-size dolls weigh 55–95 lbs (25–43 kg). Torso-only models are 15–30 lbs. Weight is one of the most underestimated factors — consider your physical ability to lift and reposition before choosing full-size.

4. Is Shipping Discreet?

Yes. Reputable sellers ship in plain cardboard boxes with no product markings. The billing descriptor on your card will show a generic company name, not a product description.

5. How Long Does Shipping Take?

Most dolls ship from factories in China. Standard shipping takes 2–4 weeks. Express options can reduce this to 7–14 days at extra cost. Custom orders add 2–4 weeks of production time.

6. Can I Customize My Doll?

Absolutely. Most manufacturers let you choose: head sculpt, body type, skin tone, eye color, hair, breast type, nail color, vagina type, and add-ons like standing feet or heating function.

7. How Realistic Do They Feel?

Modern TPE and silicone dolls are surprisingly realistic — the skin texture, softness, and weight all contribute to a lifelike experience. Temperature is the main difference; dolls start at room temperature unless a heating option is used.

8. Are They Legal?

Yes, in most countries including the US, UK, Canada, and EU — as long as the doll depicts an adult figure. Always check your local laws; a small number of jurisdictions have restrictions.

9. What Comes in the Box?

Typically: the doll, a cleaning douche, care instructions, white handling gloves, and sometimes a spare wig or USB heating rod. You will need to buy lubricant and renewal powder separately.

10. How Do I Clean It?

After each use, flush orifices with warm water and antibacterial soap, rinse well, then pat dry. Apply cornstarch or TPE renewal powder to the body. Total time: 15–30 minutes.

11. How Long Do They Last?

TPE dolls last 2–5 years with good care; silicone dolls can last 5–10+ years. Lifespan depends heavily on cleaning frequency and storage conditions.

12. Will My Privacy Be Protected?

Reputable sellers use secure, encrypted checkout. Your purchase will not appear on statements beyond a generic merchant name. All packaging is unmarked.

13. Can I Return It If I Am Not Happy?

Most sellers do not accept returns for hygiene reasons, but will replace dolls with verified manufacturing defects. Always photograph the doll within 24 hours of delivery if you notice any damage.

14. What Lubricant Should I Use?

Water-based lubricant only. Silicone-based or oil-based lubricants will degrade TPE material over time. This is a critical rule to follow.

15. Do I Need Any Special Accessories?

Essentials: water-based lubricant, cornstarch (or renewal powder), antibacterial soap, microfiber towels, and a vaginal irrigator. Optional: heating rod, additional wigs, clothing.

16. How Should I Store It?

Lay flat on a soft surface, wrapped in a clean white sheet. Avoid colored fabrics (dye transfer is a common cause of permanent staining). Keep out of direct sunlight and away from heat sources.

17. Is There a Smell?

New TPE dolls sometimes have a mild chemical odor that fades within 1–2 weeks. Airing out the doll and washing with mild soap accelerates this. Silicone dolls are typically odorless.

18. Can I Buy Replacement Parts?

Yes. Most brands sell replacement heads, wigs, and hands separately. This means a minor tear or discoloration does not mean replacing the whole doll.

19. What If I Have Roommates?

Storage is the main concern. A doll can be stored in its original box under a bed, in a closet, or in a dedicated storage case. The box itself has no markings and can be labeled as “photography equipment” or similar.

20. Is It Worth the Investment?

For those seeking reliable companionship and intimacy on their own terms, the one-time cost — spread over years of use — makes it highly worthwhile. Read our value breakdown guide for a full analysis.

Have more questions? Browse our full collection or contact our support team — we are here to help you make the right choice.